Pussy rules the world– Madonna
Definition
Everything is about sex, except sex: sex is about power.– Robert Greene
The sexual market is distorted through laws, sexual taboos and shaming. The sex cartel is exploitative of men the same way a cartel is exploitative of consumers.
Contents
Pussy Rules the World
Boy toy named Troy used to live in DetroitBig dope dealer money, he was gettin’ some coinsWas in shootouts with the law, but he live in a palaceBought me Alexander McQueen, he was keeping me stylishNow that’s real, real, real– Nicki Minaj
- Ban sex with unmarried women
- Taboo all outlets for male sexuality except sex within marriage, for example:
- male homosexuality (but not female)
- prostitution (again, not prostitution where women are the clients)
- masturbation (again, male only)
This was done by shaming women who have sex in non-approved ways (namely outside marriage) as ‘easy’, ‘sluts’ etc. This is the motivation for ‘slut shaming’. Slut shaming is overwhelmingly done by other women.
Sex outside marriage is also restricted by punishing men who enjoy it (e.g. Modern Indian & Edwardian Era ‘rape’ laws)
- Portray sex that is consensual but non-approved as abuse of women
- Downplay the amount women desire sex
- Exaggerate the amount men desire sex
The Evidence
In the battle of the sexes, men are not an adversary – men are the battleground– anon
- traditionally women financially benefited from marriage or other long term relationships (LTRs) with men
- men enter into those relationships partly for sex
- women individually suppress alternatives to sex in marriage/LTRs (via slut shaming)
- women collectively suppress sexual competition to marriage/LTRs, often via laws
- this suppression is driven by less attractive or older women who otherwise could not find partners, or who could lose partners to other women…
- … and resisted by other women, who would benefit from a free market
Women compete for men to get men’s resources
If your pussy was so good, you would drive a better car.
– Katt Williams
Women are aggressive against others they see as sexual competition, especially if they are seen as ‘easy’
Fuck the skinny bitches! Fuck the skinny bitches in the club!
I wanna see all the big fat ass bitches in the muthafuckin’ club
Fuck you if you skinny bitches, what?! Kyuh
Haha, haha
I got a big fat ass (ass, ass, ass)
Come on!
– Nicki Minaj
Soon, arguments became a daily occurrence. It would start with snide comments between two people then, as others joined in, emotion and anger would grow until an eruption – shouting, screaming, swearing – which always left someone in tears.
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The effect a lack of testosterone was having in our office was even more apparent when I temporarily hired two male directors to work on a series (camera operators are usually men because of the heavy equipment). The team suddenly became quieter, more hard-working and less bitchy – partly because they were too busy flirting.
When we had meetings with men, staff turned ferocious, each out to prove that they were the sexiest in the room. With a male commissioner at Channel 4, one employee said ‘Watch this!’, then stuck her hand down her bra and tweaked her nipples. The man and I were speechless.
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I believe the business was ruined by the destructive jealousy and in-fighting of an all female staff. Their selfishness and insecurities led to my company’s demise. When I needed the so-called ‘Sisterhood’, believe me, it just wasn’t there.
The women in this situation were more likely to roll their eyes at their peer, stare her up and down and show anger while she was in the room. When she left the room, many of them laughed at her, ridiculed her appearance, and/or suggested that she was sexually available. By contrast, when the same attractive peer was dressed conservatively, the group of women assigned to this second scenario barely noticed her, and none of them discussed her when she left the room.
Results indicated that women did not want to introduce her to their boyfriend, allow him to spend time alone with her, or be friends with her:
Collectively, these results provide support for the idea that women do engage in intrasexual competition by aggressing towards sexy female counterparts.
we found that almost all women were rated as reacting negatively (“bitchy”) to an attractive female confederate when she was dressed in a sexually provocative manner. In contrast, when she was dressed conservatively, the same confederate was barely noticed by the participants. In Study 2, an experimental design was used to assess whether the sexy female confederate from Study 1 was viewed as a sexual rival by women. Results indicated that as hypothesized, women did not want to introduce her to their boyfriend, allow him to spend time alone with her, or be friends with her. [4]
Women suppress female sexuality, not men
Who run the world? Girls!Who run the world? Girls!Who run the world? Girls!Who run the world? Girls!– Beyonce Knowles
Older women, married women and feminists are more likely to be against sexual freedom
“Traditional” right-wing religious women are EXACTLY the same as the left-wing feminists are. They just use different mumbo-jumbo to achieve the same ends. For example, both ‘radical’ & ‘traditional’ women oppose any kind of sexual competition e.g. Prostitution, pornography, etc. Feminists blabber about ‘patriarchy, equality…’ while right wing fems quote bible verses. Same b.s. different packaging.– anonymous comment on YouTube
Unattractive and older women suppress other women’s freedom to dress to attract men
the Hijab contributes to the stability and preservation of marriage and family by eliminating the chances of extramarital affairs.
women reject the sexualisation of female bodies by covering them. They gain a sense of self-respect without adhering to capitalist norms of beauty. They promote a new version of feminism.
It is not that Islam suppresses sexuality, but that it embodies a strongly developed sense of its appropriate channelling – toward marriage, the bonds that sustain family life, and the attachment that secures a home.Both Muslim and Orthodox Jewish women not only describe a sense of being liberated by their modest clothing and covered hair, … when one’s husband isn’t seeing his wife (or other women) half-naked all day long – one can feel great power and intensity when the headscarf or the chador comes off in the home. … it is easy to imagine the power that sexuality can carry in a more modest culture.– Noami Wolfe “Behind the veil lives a thriving Muslim sexuality”
The more power men have, the more society approves of female sexuality
Her negligees are Burberry
Her lingerie game very straight
Her oral sex is very wet
My sex so great she gainin’ weight
I cook a cake, she cook a steak
We three estates, you Section 8
Stay out her face, she hardly date
She fuckin’ Gucci, shawty, damn!
Everyday’s a ballin’ day
Just yesterday we bought a lake
Tomorrow bought us 2 Camaros ’08 and a ’68
We trappin’ fast with stupid cash
So rap on with your stupid as
It’s Gucci Mane, no stupid ass
I keep on making stupid cash
– Nicki Minaj (slumber party)
The demand for Votes for Women means a revolt against wrongs of many kinds—against social injustice and political mismanagement as they affect both men and women. But more than all it is a revolt against the evil system under which women are regarded as sub-human and as the sex-slaves of men.– Christabel Pankhurst
Votes for Women, Chastity for Men!
Why is the woman of the streets, who spends her sex earnings upon her lover, scorned universally? Is it not because both are unconsciously violating the code, or the trade “understandings,” in giving not only of themselves, but their substance as well? These women are selling below the market, or scabbing on the job.
Votes for Women and Chastity for Men
– Christabel Pankhurst in “Plain Facts about a Great Evil”
We do not yet have a single instance of a woman reporting that she had purchased sex from a man[22]
Speakers [at suffragette meetings] drew attention to the male bias in legislation and the need for women to have the vote in order to bring an end to the traffic in women [prostitution]
speaker after speaker harked back to the need for the woman’s vote in trying to cure this canker [prostitution] in our social system. The men who are engaged in fighting the evil are a small minority; only the women, who feel the whole question with a passionate intensity, can supply the necessary voting power which would force the government to take action. [26]
Ever since the raising of the age of consent in 1885 from 13 to 16, feminists within the ‘social purity’ organizations had been continuing to campaign to close loopholes in the Act of 1885, and for further measures to prevent the sexual abuse and exploitation of women. One such measure which feminists had long demanded was that soliciting by men should be made illegal. In 1907 … a White Slave Traffic Bill had been drafted, which included a clause on male soliciting. [27]
The [anti-prostitution] Bill if passed, will do something. But Votes for Women will do more; for only when women have come into their own, only when they have the same power to protect themselves as men have, will it be impossible any longer for the souls and the bodies of women to be made a lucrative branch of modern commerce. [28]
– WSPU speaker
Reading the discussion upon the Bill, the conclusion is irresistible that the existence of vice of a certain kind is accepted by the representatives of men as part of the necessary order of things, [29]
1 The sweating of women workers.
The starvation of women is undermining the health of the mothers of the race, and is driving thousands to a life of shame.
2 The White Slave Traffic.
Even under the new Bill which is now being carried a man can get less punishment for trapping an innocent girl and forcing her to a life of shame than for stealing a loaf of bread.
3 The outrages committed upon little girls, some of them only babies.
This is a growing evil, which working-class mothers are determined to stamp out, and to do this they must have the vote.
– Flora Drummond, WSPU official
- Women having to work for a living (see Marriage as economic slavery)
- Prostitution
- Raising the age of consent from 16
It is notorious that an enormous percentage of white slaves are forced into slavery by economic pressure, by the impossibility of earning more than a starvation wage, or by the impossibility of earning anything at all
– Christabel Pankhurst [34]
People are led to reason thus: a woman who is a wife is one who has made a permanent sex-bargain for her maintenance; the woman who is not married may therefore make a temporary bargain of the same kind. [my emphasis]
– Christabel Pankhurst [35]
Chastity for men—or, in other words, their observance of the same moral standard as is observed by women—is therefore indispensable.
Votes for Women will strike at the Great Scourge in many ways. When they are citizens women will feel a greater respect for themselves, and will be more respected by men. They will have the power to secure the enactment of laws for their protection, and to strengthen their economic position.
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One of the chief objects of the book is to enlighten women as to the true reason why there is opposition to giving them the vote. That reason is sexual vice. The opponents of Votes for Women know that women, when they are politically free, and economically strong, will not be purchasable for the base uses of vice.
Those who want to have women as slaves, obviously do not want women to become voters.
All the high-sounding arguments against giving votes to women are a sham—a mere attempt to cover up the real argument against this! reform, which argument, we repeat, is sexual vice.
– Christabel Pankhurst [36]
the “sex war” formed the crux of the suffrage campaign and provides one of the keys to comprehending the true nature of the women’s movement; masculinity, especially as manifested in sexual behaviour, constituted for feminists a selfish, destructive, uncontrolled, brutalising force. Suffragism was closely intertwined between 1860 and 1914 with the campaigns for family law reform and women doctors, and with the crusade against state-regulated prostitution. [37]
Reports of the debates on the passage of the [anti-prostitution] Bill in Parliament demonstrated the fundamental conflict of interest between women and men on the issue.
[prostitution] is central to male power and therefore central to women’s emancipation. … by making the links between women’s economic position, the exploitation of their sexuality, and their subordination as a sex, they highlighted, rather than obscured, the economic basis of prostitution. Underpinning the campaigns and the slogans was an analysis of the sexual economics of male power in which heterosexual relations were seen as a power relations. [38]
Feminists from the suffragettes on have consistently campaigned to raise the age of consent.
My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard
– Kelis
Pussy really is the ultimate motivator of all mankind. No, don’t clap, this is a flaw in the system!
– Doug Stanhope
The closer we look, the harder it is to distinguish social-purity groups from feminist ones. Feminists from very disparate groups were advocates of most major social purity issues. [43]
raising the age of consent, the reformation of prostitutes, censorship of obscenity, and the advocacy of birth control through restraint [abstinence].
Women suppress pornography
The power of pussy, that’s why niggaz get their hair cut.
-R. Kelly
Female circumcision (female genital cutting) is mostly performed and supported by older women.
Got that super soaker pussy pop like cola coka
plus it’s tighter than a choka
got em smilin like the joka
got that na-na-na-na-na-na-na lil mama aint
on my linen when yo momma sleepin you can call me and get all up in it
bank roll gimmie all them pretty furs cause my pussy game cold when he hit it
– Nicki Minaj (slumber party)
She also challenges some common misconceptions around FGC, like the belief that it is forced on women by men. In fact, elderly women often do the most to perpetuate the custom.…But when you talk to people on the ground, you also hear people talking about the idea that it [female circumcision] is women’s business. As in, it’s for women to decide this. If we look at the data across Africa, the support for the practice is stronger among women than among men.So, the patriarchy argument is just not a simple one. Female circumcision is part of demarcating insider and outsider status. Are you part of this group of elder women who have power in their society?
the practices are most zealously defended by women (e.g., Boddy, 1989, 1998). Men seem generally indifferent (consistent with Greer’s impression that the men often do not even know). Some fathers object to having their daughters subincised or infibulated, but the men’s objections are overruled by the women in the family, who insist on having the operations performed (Lightfoot-Klein, 1989). Hicks (1996) also reported several findings indicating that men argued for less severe surgical practices but were thwarted by the women’s deter- mined support for the practices.
Who supports and perpetuates these practices of female genital surgery? The available evidence points strongly and consistently toward women. The decision about whether and when a particular girl will receive the operation is made by her mother or grandmother (Hicks, 1996; Lightfoot-Klein, 1989). The female peer group regards the operation as a mark of positive status, and girls who have not yet had it are sometimes mocked, teased, and derogated by their female peers (Lightfoot-Klein, 1989). The operation itself is nearly always performed by a woman such as a midwife. “Men are completely excluded,” according to one work on the topic (Boddy, 1989, p. 84).
the evidence favors the view that women have worked to stifle each other’s sexuality because sex is a limited resource that women use to negotiate with men, and scarcity gives women an advantage.
the decisive influence appears to be the mothers. The decision appears to be up to the mother, and many mothers seem willing to insist on the operation over the father’s objections, whereas no mothers seem willing to refuse the operation when the father supports it. Thus, again, the genital surgery appears to be rooted in and controlled by the female culture. Therefore, the evidence regarding subincision and infibulation indicates that women control and maintain the practice.
The Sex Scam and Rape
Scientific Overviews
We have often heard discussions of the reason we do not find women, as a sex, in the vanguard of world affairs; why the great educators, strong figures in progressive or revolutionary movements, are men rather than women; why these movements, themselves, are made up almost entirely of men rather than women. People have asked over and over again why, in the fields of the arts, the sciences, in the world of “practical affairs,” men, rather than women, generally excel.
We believe the answer lies in the fact that women, as a sex, are the owners of a commodity vitally necessary to the health and well-being of man. Women occupy a more fortunate biologic, and in many countries, a more fortunate economic position, in the increasingly intensified struggle for existence. And the preferred class, the biologically and economically favored class, or sex, has rarely been efficient-to-do, has never been revolutionary to attack a social system that accords advantage to it.
As a sex, women have rarely been rebels or revolutionists. We do not see how they can ever be as long as there exists any system of exploitation to revolt against. Revolt comes from the submerged, never from the group occupying a favored place. Today the revolutionist is he who has nothing to sell but his labor power.
– Women As Sex Vendors (1918)
the women in a community would potentially have a monopoly [on sex] if they could band together to reduce competition among themselves. A rational economic strategy that many monopolies or cartels have pursued is to try to increase the price of their assets by artificially restricting the supply. With sex, this would entail having the women put pressure on each other to exercise sexual restraint and hold out for a high price (such as a commitment to marriage) before engaging in sex.
Economic history suggests that such efforts, as in the case of OPEC (Organization of Petroleum Exporting Countries) are only intermittently successful and may often be undermined as individuals seek to underbid each other. Still, monopolies are sometimes sufficiently successful that most developed nations have found it necessary to enact laws against them. It would therefore not be surprising that economic self-interest would occasionally drive women to work together to restrain the availability of sex
– Roy F. Baumeister, Kathleen D. Vohs, “Sexual Economics:Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange in Heterosexual Interactions”
Indirect aggression includes behaviours such as criticizing a competitor’s appearance, spreading rumours about a person’s sexual behaviour and social exclusion. Human females have a particular proclivity for using indirect aggression, which is typically directed at other females, especially attractive and sexually available females, in the context of intrasexual competition for mates.
Indirect aggression is an effective intrasexual competition strategy. It is associated with a diminished willingness to compete on the part of victims and with greater dating and sexual behaviour among those who perpetrate the aggression. [56]
Feminist Views
Cause ain’t nothin’ goin’ on but the rent
You got to have a J-O-B if you wanna be with me
– Gwen Guthrie
It is clear that militant feminists were attempting to demonstrate that the question of sex slavery [prostitution] could not be separated from the broader question of women’s subordination, including their economic position; that it was central to male power and therefore central to women’s emancipation. Far from identifying with ‘Mrs Grundy’ [prudes], their clear intention was to expose what they saw as the real facts of life. By making the links between women’s’ economic position, the exploitation of their sexuality, and their subordination as a sex. they highlighted, rather than obscured, the economic basis of prostitution.
Underpinning the campaigns and the slogans was an analysis of the sexual economics of male power in which heterosexual relations were seen as power relations. This analysis was also reflected in the famous series of articles on venereal disease written by Christabel Pankhurst at the height of the campaign in 1913. [57]
Objections
Wanna get me with no moneyOh no, I don’t want noNo scrub, no scrub (no, no)– TLC
More Reading
I once had pride, now that’s all behindI want to get rich quickI want success and all that goes with itAnd I’m gonna use my sex– Adventures Of Stevie V
Feminism exists as a defender of the selfish sexual and reproductive interests of aging and/or unattractive women. This is its entire raison d’etre, the reason it first came into existence with the social purity movement reformers of the 19th century, led by their harridan battle cry – ‘armed with the ballot the mothers of America will legislate morality’.…[most women] are unhappier than ever, coupled with a vague awareness that this requires not more economic and political independence for women, but rather a simple closure of the free sexual market and a return to traditionalism.Feminism has always been about playing catch-up in the quest to stop new technology from widening the free sexual market and putting the sexual interests of unattractive women at risk
feminism is a sexual trade union for women reacting to changes in technology that continue to drive open the free sexual market (and put feminists, and the majority of women, at a sexual disadvantage)
Why is the woman of the streets, who spends her sex earnings upon her lover, scorned universally? Is it not because both are unconsciously violating the code, or the trade “understandings,” in giving not only of themselves, but their substance as well? These women are selling below the market, or scabbing on the job.– Women As Sex Vendors (1918)
2 replies on “The Sex War”
I was able to find good info from your blog posts. Mela Randall Templeton
Fascinating read.
I should point out that note 50 links to a press article that perpetuates the notion only men can rape.